Wednesday 31 July 2013

The Sunrise


The alarm clock that woke me up was not the fancy tune on my mobile, nor the electronic one that jars you awake and makes you want to bury your head deeper into your blanket and wish the sound would go away. Neither was it a recorded voice that urges you to wake up and reminds you of the mechanical day you need to start, if you need to get on in life. No, it was the sound of a rooster crowing in the deep stillness of the morning, in a place where you open your eyes and you don’t even hear the whirring sound of the fan in the background. 
By habit, one would want to go back to sleep. By habit of laziness, I would tell myself, I am not compelled to get up; I am on a holiday.  That thought did cross my mind for a second. However, I found the need for food to my soul was greater than my need for physical rest. The former won, and I was down on the bay window seat in ten minutes, waiting for the promised sight the sun rise would offer. Huddled in a thick blanket with a woolen cap on my head, I was hardly visible to anyone else, with just two eyes peering out at the darkness, willing the sun to rise!
He took his own time.  Meanwhile, my sensory organs were tuned in to the surroundings perfectly.  I could hear the silence… I could hear the rooster crowing time and again, and I noticed, it was at regular intervals.  I could hear an occasional dog bark in the distance, maybe at the milk vendor who goes from door to door, milking the cow for the residents and giving them fresh, warm milk. Milk in packets is a novelty here!  My auditory perception was at its peak… The swish of the eucalyptus leaves as they brushed and swished against each other, when the birds stirred restlessly…
The chirping started and all this while, I kept staring at the sky.  It had been pitch dark when I came downstairs. Now it was slowly changing to light, and I could see the clouds slowly taking various shapes, as the golden rays - or are they pink?  I'm not really sure - fell on them.  The hill ranges remained dark at the base, but the top of the ranges started appearing as the light slowly fell on them, and I almost forgot to click pictures  as I stared, mesmerized, at the transformation nature had to offer!
My cup of hot coffee became cold; I was not willing to take my eyes away even for a second as I was afraid I might miss out on some wondrous sight.   Slowly, as the world basked in the light of dawn, I could see the reflection of the sun on the windows; and I realized that though the light had been peering from one mountain range, the sun played hide and seek with me.  Suddenly, I found the sun popping up from behind yet another mountain, and it seemed he was grinning at me as if to say, 'tricked you'! 
If you are watching a sunrise for the first time, then let me tell you, you will not really know which spot on the sky he is going to greet you from, other than the general direction of the East! There he is, nice and bright, all done up and ready for yet another day, blessing the world with his light and warmth… Never am I going to complain about the heat of the plains, after witnessing how welcome he is here!
The chirping grew louder; the crowing cock fell silent: he was done for the day; I could hear my family come down for their breakfast; the occasional sounds of the vehicles passing by on the road signaled it was time for me to get on with my day. 

But what a truly beautiful start to life!

Friday 26 July 2013

YOU HAVE THE RIGHT TO SAY NO, WITHOUT FEELING GUILTY!!!


A bill of assertive rights

  1. You have the right to judge your own behavior, thoughts, and emotions and to take responsibility for their initiation and consequences upon yourself.
  2. You have the right to offer no reasons or excuses for justifying your behavior.
  3. You have the right to judge if you are responsible for finding solutions to other people’s problems.
  4. You have the right to change your mind.
  5. You have the right to make mistakes – and be responsible for them.
  6. You have the right to be independent of the goodwill of others before coping with them.
  7. You have the right to be illogical in making decisions.
  8. You have the right to say “I don’t know”.
  9. You have the right to say “I don’t understand”.
  10. You have the right to say “I don’t care”.