I waited for the watchman to open the gate to park my car
inside. Glancing around, I saw a car
parked a couple of meters away. The AC was running in the car and though the
glass was rolled up, I could see a little girl in the front seat, with a person
at the driver's seat. The child seemed
to be eating something, and suddenly the window of the car rolled down, an
empty carton of juice and an empty
packet of chips came flying out of the window. I parked my car inside, went out of my
building, and tapped on the window of the parked car. The child looked out at me with her nose
stuck to the glass, and I smiled at her. The man, presumably the father, rolled down the window. I addressed the child, gently telling her not
to litter the road, and how we all need to take care of our environment. Before I could even complete my sentence, the
father took off. He wanted to know why I
was bothered, to mind my own business etc.
When I remonstrated that it was part of our responsibility to our
children to teach them such attitudes, he shot back, "Ok then you come in and
take a class for my child..." And he rolled up the window!!!
Is this what our futuristic view is about? Are we not obliged to impart knowledge on how
to live a more fruitful, meaningful life to the next generation? I have come across parents who feel they can
create a glass bubble for their children.
But then, when the children do have to move out into the world, all
survival skills, social rules, feelings of empathy and interpersonal skills are
missing. Children who grow up with the
'I, Me, and Myself' attitude have a very warped view of others and the larger
world in general, and they fancy themselves as either the 'He Men' of the
Universe, or wither away and fade out, without leaving any mark on the sands of
time.
Education is important; we spend so much time,
effort, and money on making sure our children hold a valid degree. Can we also make sure they are equipped
to be caring, gentle and sensitive human beings, who care for the world and
Mother Earth too?
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